Relationships shouldn’t be a one-time charm with no sequel. If you think flirting ends after you’ve “won her heart,” you’re in for a boring ride. Keeping that spark alive is an art, and let’s face it—she deserves a lifetime subscription to your charm. Here’s how to make sure the playful banter and butterflies never stop, even years down the line.
1. Never Stop Complimenting Her
You think she’s heard it all? Wrong. Keep noticing the small stuff—her laugh, her new earrings, or even how she ties her shoes. Compliments should be like surprise attacks, not scheduled events.
2. Playfully Tease Her
Remember how you flirted in the beginning? Teasing her about the way she snores or how she drinks coffee too fast can keep that light-hearted energy alive. Just know the line between playful and hurtful—unless you want her comeback to be a pillow to your face.
3. Send Random “I Miss You” Texts
Out of nowhere, hit her with a simple “I miss you.” Even if she’s just in the next room. Bonus points if you add a cute inside joke.
4. Be Her Biggest Fan
Hype her up like she’s the star of your favorite show. Whether she’s killing it at work or nailing her yoga poses, cheer louder than her best friend would.
5. Surprise Date Nights
Who said date nights have to be on Fridays? Plan spontaneous mid-week dates. Surprise her with a trip to her favorite café or an impromptu movie marathon.
6. Keep Your Texts Unpredictable
“Good morning” texts are sweet, but try mixing in a “Remember that time…” or a random meme that’ll make her laugh out loud. Predictability is the enemy of flirtation.
7. Create Inside Jokes
Build your own secret language. Turn that awkward waiter moment into a running joke. Inside jokes are like private VIP rooms in your relationship.
8. Challenge Her to Silly Games
Ever tried a staring contest in a restaurant or betting who can find the weirdest item in the grocery store? Keep the playful competition going.
9. Randomly Steal a Kiss
Why wait for the “perfect moment”? Plant a quick kiss when she least expects it—like while she’s mid-rant about traffic.
10. Whisper in Her Ear
No, not sweet nothings. Whisper random, funny things like “I can’t believe you made me eat kale.” It’ll catch her off guard and make her smile.
11. Flirt in Public (Like Strangers)
Pretend you don’t know each other when you’re out. Send her a flirty look from across the room or casually ask for her number. Who says role-play can’t be PG-rated?
12. Leave Little Notes
Slip a note in her purse or on the bathroom mirror. It doesn’t have to be Shakespeare—just something that’ll make her giggle.
13. Compete Over Silly Things
Who makes the better pancakes? Who can spot more red cars on the drive? The prize? Bragging rights or an extra-long hug.
14. Compliment Her Like You Just Met
“Have I mentioned you have the best smile?” Acts like you’re seeing her for the first time, every time.
15. Play Hard to Get (A Little)
Sometimes, pretend you’re too busy for a minute. Make her work for your attention… but not too hard.
16. Sing Her Favorite Song (Badly)
Even if you can’t carry a tune, belt out her favorite song in the car. Bonus points if you mess up the lyrics.
17. Dress Up for Her (Randomly)
Show up looking like you’re ready for a red carpet, even if you’re just binge-watching TV. She’ll know you’re still trying to impress her.
18. Keep the Compliments Flirty
Don’t just say, “You look nice.” Try, “Are you trying to distract me today?” with a playful grin.
19. Challenge Her to a Dance-Off
Who cares if it’s in the living room? Play her favorite song and challenge her. Worst-case scenario? You both end up laughing.
20. Text Her Like You’re Still Wooing Her
Remember those first texts? The witty, flirty ones? Bring them back. Keep her guessing what you’ll say next.
21. Fake a “First Date”
Recreate your first date, right down to the awkwardness. Pretend it’s your first time meeting and see how well you can still charm her.
22. Play “Who’s Checking Who Out”
In a crowded place, pretend to catch her checking you out. Give her a sly smile and a “Caught you staring” wink.
23. Random Compliment Drive-Bys
Walk past her and drop a quick compliment without stopping. Keep her on her toes.
24. Leave Mystery in Your Conversations
End a conversation with “I’ll tell you later…” and don’t bring it up until she asks. Keep her curious.
25. Never Stop Being Her Biggest Fan
Laugh at her jokes (even the bad ones). Celebrate her wins like they’re yours. The more you adore her out loud, the more she’ll keep flirting back.
Remember: Keeping the flirt alive isn’t just fun—it’s the key to never losing that spark.